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Everyone is drinking, peering into their screens and swiping on the faces of strangers they may have sex with later that evening. “Ew, this guy has Dad bod,” a young woman says of a potential match, swiping left.
Her friends smirk, not looking up.“Tinder sucks,” they say. At a booth in the back, three handsome twentysomething guys in button-downs are having beers.
In the vast majority of cases, spouses who had Internet encounters with the opposite sex did not think they were doing anything wrong.
Yet research had shown that on-line adultery caused the same feelings of hurt, anger and betrayal as skin-to-skin contact.
They are Dan, Alex, and Marty, budding investment bankers at the same financial firm, which recruited Alex and Marty straight from an Ivy League campus.
When asked if they’ve been arranging dates on the apps they’ve been swiping at, all say not one date, but two or three: “You can’t be stuck in one lane …
It's not a fun conversation to have at any point of the relationship -- but it's sure as hell easier to tell someone you're not looking for something too serious before things get… Try going somewhere public, like a coffee shop or bar, and telling them that you just got out of something serious and don't want a big commitment.
And in many cases what started out as innocent fun ended up as a full-blown affair.
Ms Mileham conducted in-depth interviews with 76 men and 10 women, aged 25 to 66, who used Yahoo's "Married and Flirting" or Microsoft's "Married But Flirting" Internet chat rooms. The study participants included stay-at-home mothers, construction workers, engineers, nurses and presidents of large corporations.
A similar trend can be seen in Britain, where increasing numbers of people are seeking help to save their marriages from the lure of the Internet.
Beatriz Mileham, from the University of Gainesville in Florida, who carried out the new study, said: "The Internet will soon become the most common form of infidelity, if it isn't already."With 649 million Internet users worldwide, chat rooms were a fatal attraction for many married people seeking sexual thrills and romantic adventure.